Thursday, May 13, 2010

Respect, mutual understanding and quality time

Respect

Respect happens when you don't force the person you love to do something they don't want to.
Respect comes in many forms; btwn spouses, btwn siblings, btwn friends, btwn lovers.

Betwn lovers.
Where to draw the line. How fast should things be progressing. Respect in its highest forms occurs when the other party, your love, can control himself and go at your pace. He doesn't force you to do things you don't want to and gives you space for control and choice. Choice and the freedom to choose to what extent. And the pace you desire. He asks for your permission and gives you time to think and ability for chance to say no or to stop something you are uncomfortable with. For that, thank you K.

Mutual Understanding

Mutual Understanding comes in the form of a silent understanding of how each other feel, without having to say a word. Nothing is said but all is felt. Every single move, every single gesture, down to a dart of the eye, nothing escapes the sight of the other party. If he loves u, he will love u for who u are, not what u are or what u have.

Quality time

Many seek thrill, excitement and try to squash too many a thing in a short time frame. For me, quality time rules over anything else. Comfortable silence being the hardest to achieve and i think i found it. To be in the arms of the one you love and just chilling is just plain fufilling. No fussy set-ups, no crazy drama filled day. Just ample quality time spent together.

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